I asked my friends and family the same questions as what I asked the strangers last time to see if the results were more honest and accurate as they'd have longer to answer them. I used Facebook to message a bunch of family and fiends from different backgrounds and gave them as long as they needed to reply. Here are my results:
Makes him happy:
Being with my family, speaking with them. thinking about them. pictures. same for friends. good friends and family make me happy. along with the simple things of life. good hearty food, and alcohol. then there is my work, but that isn't something i just am happy doing, its my life.
Happiest moment of his life:
I could never pin point my happiest moment. I don’t think that is possible. so one very happy moment in my life was, getting into drama school and moving to London. because, I have been to university twice before, I didn't enjoy them. I feel that going to my first two uni’s was a knee jerk reaction, and I just wanted to escape from the troubles at home, because i was sick of dealing with the pain of it all, i have always felt i was still putting other first until, I finally found something, DRAMA SCHOOL that i had achieved and nothing was to get in my way of this that being family issues. i think i am more happy about this because the things that kept me back at home initially had got better and it made my move to London a very positive experience.
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Makes him happy:
Money makes me happy.
Happiest moment of his life:
When i left home that was when i was 17, 7 years ago
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Makes him happy:
caring for others makes me happy. i am content in life to care for another and make sure they are happy. for instance, i am not happy when i am alone as now. i wish to be in a relationship for which i can care for the woman, our children and inevitbly a family. when i am alone i am most unhappy. for when i am caring for someone else they are caring for me and the feeling of mutual conscientiousness is lovely. when i have in the past lived with and around people who lack a conscience for others it makes me un happy.
Happiest moment of his life:
The happiest moment of my life is a hard one but currently it is every time i am busking. since i have begun busking i have been able to escape any feelings of depression or illness i have completely
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Makes her happy:
Okay i'll have a think cos I literally can only think of smoking lol
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Makes her happy:
There are hundreds of happy times in our lives, but the main happy times is when I feel love and a sense of being wanted, to see a child happy playing and smiling, when things work out for others, I could go on and on , so many things, when things go well for family and friends, miracles happening every day, that's what makes me happy.
I'm most happy when I am contented, and having good health so I can live life to the best I can do.
Happiest moment of her life:
The happiest moments in my live are having met the man of my dream and got married feeling secure having 3 beautiful children, having grand children appear so I can share my love with them.
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Makes him happy:
Completing, or successfully doing something i've been trying to do for a long time
Happiest moment of his life:
one night out in australia, in subiaco
or the day i got confirmation i was going to australia
no, the boat race 2012, we won! In senior 8s
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Makes him happy:
Friends... and video games
Happiest moment of his life:
Manchester City beating QPR on the last day of the season to win the Premier League
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Makes her happy:
McDonalds makes me happy and food in general. Sorry but I cant think of anything else. Sweet things cheer me up, so do cheesey things and spicy things. When I'm down, I stick my face into a fat portion of mac n cheese, and I'm not sad for long because I know Dominos are just on the other end of the phone.
Happiest moment of her life:
I cant particularly remember what the happiest moment of my life was, nothing really springs to mind, its all been kinda so-so plus my memory isnt very good so I could tell u the happiest I've been this week which was when this guy was telling me a story about how he shat himself in a club
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Makes him happy:
Both my family life and my job! I have a very close family and love that, it's massive aswel so there's never a dull moment! I like how my parents are my friends! And how all the Irish side are entertainers so a family party is like a variety show! Great fun!
Happiest moment of his life:
There's been some great moments, like the births of all my nephews and nieces, or getting signed by my agent, or the moment I got the part on the advert but I have to say the happiest moment of my life to date is the day Manchester city won the premier league! Just amazing! Every time I see that winning goal I get goosebumps all over again! Man city is a massive part of my life, as a child we were never that good and we used to get ripped by everyone so now it's to see us doing so well.
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Makes her happy:
My children make me happy.
Happiest moment of her life:
The happiest moment of my life was 21 years ago when I held my daughter in my arms for the very first time.
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Makes him happy:
Im happy when im in good company, with a pint.
Happiest moment of his life:
My happiest moment I cant tell you unfortunately.
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Makes him happy:
Making music
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Makes him happy:
Seeing my children happy and smiling (cliche I know). Also doing things I love, photography being the main one but also listening to music, both of which can be the thing that takes me somewhere else in my head.
Happiest moment of his life:
The births of my two boys
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Makes her happy:
What makes me happy the most is having my two beautiful boys. They make every day worth getting up for and after having a lot of sadness in my life they are my reason for living. Waking up to them every day and watching them grow up together makes me so happy.
Happiest moment of her life:
The happiest moment of my life was about 4 months ago when I was cuddling jenson and jaiden came over and started to cuddle us both and he stroked jensons head and gave him a kiss and said 'love you jenson'. It was that lovely a moment it made me cry with happiness.
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Makes him happy:
I suppose seeing my family and friends make me happy
Happiest moment of his life:
Probably passing my driving test
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Makes him happy:
What I find makes me happy in recent months, is my friends, finding myself, knowing I'm good at what I do and that people are there for me through thick and thin
Happiest moment of his life:
Happiest moment of my life, I guess if I had to pick, that would be be a hard one, but let's just go with the first time I came to your house party
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Makes him happy:
Music makes me happy. Animals do also. Hanging out with my friends or seeing my dogs. Good weather makes me happy too. When it's really sunny.
Happiest moment of his life:
Happiest moment in my life was probably when my dad bought me my first decent guitar for Christmas because I didn't expect it at all. Was a really really nice surprise
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Makes him happy:
Seeing the people who matter the most to me makes me happy. Spending time with friends and Dan makes me happy.
Happiest moment of his life:
The most happiest moment of my life was when I met Dan in February.
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Makes him happy:
Good day out, like a day that's gone really well, and your content because you have achieved something worthwhile.
Happiest moment of his life:
As for the happiest moment of my life, im not sure will have to get back to you on that, like its always things like getting awards makes me feel great.
That and performing on stage.
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Makes him happy:
What makes me happy is in fact hanging around u guys and other people. It's basically the greatest thing I look forward to each and every time. You guys have given me so many great memories and would probably still be a social outcast I was in college and high school. So in other words, u guys changed my way of things.
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Makes him happy:
When I'm sad i like to go for a walk and listen to of monsters and men. The music cheers me up and makes the world not seem so bad.
Happiest moment of his life:
My happiest memory was when i had my heart operation (was rather young) i went to the hospital payphone, my dad passed me the phone and my mum was describing my room which had just been decorated telling me about my Thomas the tank engine wallpaper and matching curtains and she was crying as she told me but it was happy cause i was excited to get home and be with my family.
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Makes her happy:
If my family are all well and they are happy
Happiest moment of her life:
My wedding day and the birth of my kids and grand kids.
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Makes her happy:
Family makes me happy because they're the only ones that will always be there for you, no matter what. Friends come and go, and they have limits and restrictions but family is always there.
Happiest moment of her life:
And I don't have a happiest moment of my life, but I know that my happiest and most content moments are when I'm in the presence of my family.
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Makes him happy:
I'm happy when I know I've achieved something. Such as leaving the gym knowing I'm improving myself, or when I passed my units in uni. Also winning makes me happy as I'm very competitive so during football and boxing I don't enjoy the game I enjoy the victory. I'm also happy when I know I've influenced my cousin in the right way as with his autism he struggles to work out how to problem solve so by him thinking "what would James do" makes me incredibly happy. And the usual family and friends putting smiles on people's faces.
Happiest moment of his life:
I guess it was when cousin Liam told me I was his hero and he wants to be like me. Have me the push to be a good person and role model for the lad. Was a quality feeling and still makes me smile.
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Makes him happy:
Football, socialising, drinking, good food.
Happiest moment of his life:
Happiest moment of my life was probably when Celtic beat Barcelona last year.
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Makes her happy:
Spending time with my grandchild, Teagan
Happiest moment of her life:
When I got married and the birth of my son, Andrew and grandchild Teagan.
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Makes her happy:
I suppose the only thing that really makes me happy is seeing others happy or making other people happy.
Happiest moment of her life:
As for the happiest moment in my life...ive no idea really hard question.
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Makes him happy:
Getting in from a long shift from work or a massive library session and plugging my headphones and guitar in when i'm home, because it's how I relax, and I play best when I feel i've earned it. Finishing cardio at the gym and then throwing myself in the pool is a great feeling too! So is finishing a long book, and on the other end of the spectrum, being in the middle of a thriving house party.
Happiest moment of his life:
The happiest moment of my life was definitely the first year of Uni, meeting all my housemates and people like you and knowing that I'd made the best decision I've made so far...Watching Iron Maiden at Donnington with 4 joints to myself in a close second.
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Makes him happy:
Not a great deal makes me happy the once in a blue moon that i get to see my son makes me happy but for the most part I’m just content.
Happiest moment of his life:
The first time I held my son.
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Makes him happy:
What makes me happy is just generally having something positive to look forward to, regardless of how major or minor it is. I like to live life with the knowledge of something positive to come, otherwise everything feels a little flat to me. So, yeah, something to look forward to in general.
Happiest moment of his life:
The happiest moment in my life: this isn't one specific moment, but a period of time. I just remember being really happy and content during the autumn of 2007. I'd recently started my final year at high school, it was my favourite time of year, there was a lot of good stuff going on in my life and I just had the feeling that there was a lot good to come, with the changes the next year would bring, etc.
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Makes him happy:
Well what makes me happy, I think one of the main things that makes me happy is when the people around me and the people I love are happy. That I think is one of the main things.
Second I would say spending time with family and friends but I also thing time on my own makes me happy too. So a mix of being with them and being my myself makes me happy.
Seeing good in the world and seeing nature at its finest makes me happy.
And a good night sleep makes me very happy
Happiest moment of his life:
And the happiest moment of my life I don't think had happened yet because each year something keeps happening that replaces that.
But meeting Fanny for the first time and graduating are in the top 5 I think haha.
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Makes him happy:
What makes me happy is spending time with my family and getting to see them as much as possible
Happiest moment of his life:
The happiest moment of my life was last year when we went on a week long family holiday to Centre Parcs for my sister's 30th birthday. It was also a great time in my life because I have always wanted us to have a family holiday somewhere and it was probably the best holiday I have ever had.
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Makes her happy:
My automatic reaction was omgosh puppies make me happy!!! Yesspuppies and animals and omgosh rabbits too!!!
Happiest moment of her life:
One of the happiest moments in my life was when I got my rabbit when I was 5 years old sooo 1996!
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I've found that the most common answer to 'What makes you happy?' are answers related to family and friends, this has been a trend throughout each of my questionnaire tactics. The people who I asked who have more money seem to be the happiest and enjoy the finer things in life like good food and gifts as well as the common answer of spending time with family and friends and those with little money often just picked up on the family and friend answer rather than anything else.
The majority of the older people that I asked said their children and grandchildren were what made them the most happiest and the younger people chose to mention things to related to fun and socializing.
I asked the question 'What was the happiest moment of your life?' because I wanted personal answers where as the question 'What makes you happy?' brought me many of the same collective answers. I wanted to receive answers suggesting small personal things that nobody apart form that person would think of mentioning so my video would have little personal connections to the people that I'd asked.